What Men Want...

If  I were to actually focus on the one basic desire of the ‘man’kind then a short 3-letter word would suffice. But I’m not biased and neither is this an adult blog post so I have to delve deeper into the topic of what men want…

I’m kind of out of luck here as men are a species I have always failed to understand. Why on Earth would someone wear the same shirt for a week to school (my cousin) I cannot fathom.  I guess I am straying from the topic, what men want to why men want so…

Men Want To Be the Boss:

Be it in an office or at home, men always want to be the boss, the supreme master and the .. ok you got it. Especially at home the need to be the boss is overwhelming.  Sometimes they don’t succeed and sometimes they think they have succeeded!

Men Want To Get Noticed:

Ok everyone craves for attention, it’s a part of human nature unless you are a shy introvert kinda person who freezes under limelight. Men of course love to get noticed. Be it for their flashy gadgets ,their super fast cars/bikes or their hot girlfriends… men crave for attention in whatever form it comes and lap it all up.

Men Want To Be Free:

Ah! This is knowledge gained from personal experience. The moment you try to make a man tied down, he gets defensive and sometimes offensive. Men crave for freedom, not only from possessive girlfriends & nagging wives but also say from office work or the other mundane affairs of life.

Men Want To Be Taken Care Of:

There’s a soft part in every man that craves for love and care to be bestowed on him. That’s the part which makes him feign acute pain (exaggeratedly) form that small cut. No wonder the hero would take a blow from a rival unflinchingly  but wince when the heroine would apply lotion to his gaping wounds(courtesy Bollywood).
And that’s also the part that looks forward to a cup of tea made by his wife after a long day of work…or a pat on the back by his parents and a comforting hug from his Mom. They don’t say it, you gotta see it!

And last but the most important thing that men want is… to understand women! That’s one mystery every man ponders on at some point of his life…. Do I hear a ‘yeah…’?!





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Comments

Sugandha said…
Voila! Nice analysis! well penned ;) :D
Rinaya said…
thanks yaar.. I wrote this just now.. in like 20min!
:P
got back home now after a horrific night...thankfully I'd already thought of what to write..glad u liked it! :)
Aashi said…
interesting.....cnt figure out if u covered all basis..but guess u caught the essence..kudos 2u 4 tht :D
well written and even I believe men wants tea when he return home and a pat on back by parents....great post.
Purba said…
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Purba said…
Women want commitment, a long term meaningful relationship and men want to be free. " I want to have my cake and eat it too". So true.

But women love getting noticed too and I knew quite a few domineering women and meek men.
Sagar..... said…
Well thought and well presented.....

being a man i'd say is basically wat men want is to find someone who understands them before they say. Men always showoff to be strong but still expect a warm and soothing hug from a dear one.....

All da best for da contest....
Srikant Rajan said…
Well , on the face of it.........this seems true, but if you replace men with Human it wouldn't be entirely incorrect !! :):)
Pooja said…
Men want to be free and they also want to be taken care of.. That's a neat contradiction isn't it?

Nice post.
Rinaya said…
@Aashi: Well,there are many aspects to any given topic,I just covered points where I have been able to form an opinion..rest of it is still a mystery to me :P
@Pratibha & Sagar:Exactly my sentiments..Thanks :)
@Srikant & Purba: well, I did mention that its typical of us humans to want to get noticed,however flashiness is better displayed by men,don't you think?
@Pooja: that's how men are! :P
thanks..
Neeha said…
Nice blog..
Loved the last para...It's soo true:)
This would have been quite easy, coz men are not women! :P
suraj said…
im a man....well an overgrown boy.... and most of the analysis is true... and the post is terrific.... but cmon are guys the only ones wanting attention and want to be noticed??? may i ask something to all the gals... why do they dress up so much, put on so much make up and wear all those jewellery??? to impress other gals??? .... just saying, same goes for gals too....

but the fact that you are an excellent blogger remains unchanged.... despite the topic!!! :D
Rinaya said…
Thanks Neeha.. N Sourav of course men are not women,had they been things would be so dull!
Suraj we gals would dress no matter what.. and sometimes its not just for guys that we do this,its just to show off too.. :P
As I said its a human nature..
lolz ... I cant say U R 100% correct .. nor I can say U R wrong 100% ...

but good observation ... keep it up ... :)

I m a man (so by default call ma self devilz a bit naughty one).. n yes I am very much interested to understand better half of the humanity ( the women/gurlz)... though I like to explore many more things .. or better say any new thing ...

n I also found one thing in U gurlz.. all gurlz I met (real / online:: talk/call/chat /video chat) till now ... they wanna see order in things .. or wanna make things in order ...

on contrary orderly ness not so charming for guyz ...

but then its fine... coz nothing can survive if order not there.. n innovation will die if chaos not their ...

I know I cant be correct 100% nor wrong 100% ...

but mine journey to explore em is neva ending seemz...

its good for meeh ... at least I have sth new always to explore n know about ... ;) :)))

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